The Single Child Club

Well, I have just watch 'The Single Moms Club', so this has inspired me to write about me and my life as a single child. FYI, my mom is also a single mother, but now I'm not going to talk about her. So, to start, a single child do have their many advantages. For example, all the attention and love are going to be focus on you 'cause you ain't have any bro or sis anyway.

But I'm going to talk about the struggle of being a single child,such as being the only successor in the family. Well that does put some pressure on you. Yeah, it's like if you fail, your parent won't have anyone to count on to take on their legacy. Nah, it's actually that, if you fail in life, who gonna take of your mama or papa. That child won't be able to support his family and his/her parent, and you would not want him/her to choose. It would not be a good one, trust me. Being a single child myself, I always try to achieve the best and try to be a successful person physically, financially, emotionally, and spiritually.

Next, as a single child in the family, they would face this very common disease, or would I just can call it loneliness. Being a single child would be great sometimes, but who you gonna talk to when your parent aren't there? That's the problem, you can't. Seriously, if you can, I can call you crazy and have to call a psychotherapist. Ok..back to the problem, being lonely. Loneliness is common among single children everywhere, unless they have very good friends, but scratch that. Having siblings to talk to can prevent the loneliness that they feel, but alas what can we do, unless our parent decide to have kids again, we are stuck alone. So, people always recommend me to find a hobby, it will make you forget that you're lonely. It works, but only for a few days, then I realized that I was still alone. Yeah, the parents have to take part to take care of their child loneliness. Take them on a vacation, hang out with them, take your time off for them. Seriously, it's not that hard. It will help your child more than you think

*to be continued...